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The New Rules of Sex: How We Want It, Get It, Love It

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Welcome to your sex life, 2007, where the bases have changed (but they’re
still all loaded), we’re plugging in to get turned on, and we ed tablets
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treat erectile dysfunction the best each other more than ever, depending on the day. How to make
sense of it and get more of what you want? We went into real people’s bedrooms
(someone had to) to discover their deepest, sexiest secrets (and a few
missteps). We also surveyed the country on what’s happening in bed (don’t miss
out), and we asked the guys at men’s mag Esquire to tell us what men
really want. Don’t worry; we told them a few things, too. Indulge yourself.

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Marie Claire/Esquire national survey, we got more
than 1700 adults between the ages of 21 and 49 to tell us you horny things
exactly what it is you do between the sheets…and at your computer, on your
desk, on the first date, in the elevator, and more. Now we know the real reason
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so addicted to their BlackBerries, what’s wrong with cyberflirting,
and how many times a week you’re getting it on. The truth, by the numbers.

ARE YOU ABOVE AVERAGE IN BED?

Average number of…
times per week you have sex: 2.6 for men; 2.3 for women
partners in lifetime: 14 for men; 11 for women
times per week you masturbate: 3.8 for men; 1.6 for women

MAYBE WOMEN JUST TYPE FASTER
61% of men surf the Net for porn; about half of them spend an hour or more
per week doing it.
17% of women surf for porn; only a third put an hour or more into it.

ITS RESEARCH, I SWEAR!

14% of women have looked at porn on the Internet at work; 32% of men have.

What’s your sex secret?
“The only way I can get off is if I fantasize that I’m a secretary and I’m
doing it with my boss.” Michelle, 27

“I keep erotic stories in my iPod and secretly read a few while watching
TV with my boyfriend. That way, by the time we go to bed, I already have a head
start.” Brooke, 26

“I hate feet, so I always have sex with my socks on and I prefer if he
does, too.” Karen, 27

“I’m not getting any!” Kristy, 32

“My friends would be amazed if they knew the real number of men that I
have slept with. It’s up there.” Kimberly, 28

“I’ve been having sex with my ‘friend with benefits’ since my sophomore
year of college. We dated for four weeks and have been sleeping together for
four years.” Kristen, 23

“I didn’t sleep with a man because he had a small penis.” Carla,
26

“I’ve always wanted to do it in a public restroom.” Jaime, 27

“I lost my virginity on my dad’s 50th birthday.” Gina, 27

Sex Around the World: How We Stack Up

Is It Something in the Waffles?

People in Belgium are happiest with their sex lives; the Chinese, not so much,
ranking last on the satisfaction scale. (USA: tied with Croatia for fourth
place)

First to Lose It

40-year-old virgins? Not exactly, but in India, the average age of first sex is
19.8, the oldest in the world. (USA: 16.9 years old)

Film Buffs

Canadians and Americans are the most likely to have cameras rolling during
sex.

Busiest in Bed

The Greeks top the frequency charts, having sex an average 138 times per year;
the Japanese just 45 times a year. (USA: in 11th place, averaging 113 boinks
annually)

Why We’re Thinking of Moving Our Offices
Place you’re most likely to have sex at work: South Africa. (USA: fifth most
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Turkish Delight

People in Turkey have had more sex partners (14.5) than in any other country,
while in India, they have had the fewest (3). (USA: ranks 13th)

Good Vibrations

Vibrator use is highest in Taiwan. (USA: tied with the U.K. for second)

Top 5 Sex Videos We’ve Seen but Wish We Hadn’t

1. Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee
2. R. Kelly and the underage girl
3. One Night in Paris
4. Screech’s threesome
5. Bob Dole’s Viagra commercial

Top 5 Books That Sound Like They’re About Sex but Aren’t

1. The Call of the Wild , by Jack London
2. Anything by E.E. Cummings
3. Hard Times , by Charles Dickens
4. They Came Like Swallows , by William Maxwell
5. My Life , by Bill Clinton

Top 5 Roles We Wish We’d Been Cast In

1. Rose Byrne in Troy . Held captive and expected to service Brad
Pitt? The horror, the horror…
2. The mango in How Stella Got Her Groove Back the one caressed by
Taye Diggs’s tongue.
3. Demi Moore in Indecent Proposal . Sex with Woody Harrelson and
Robert Redford: What’s so indecent?
4. Shannyn Sossamon in 40 Days and 40 Nights . Josh Hartnett uses an
orchid on Sossamon to…well…let’s just say he gives “deflowering” a
new meaning.
5. Jake Gyllenhaal in BrokebackMountain. Heath Ledger is
rough and manly. Grrrr. Oh, and when he asks you to go fishing, you don’t
really have to go. We’d take that bait.